Monday, June 10, 2013
Frustration station #argh
So, this past weekend I had another boomerang situation. And honestly, I am getting a little tired of it -- it is SO frustrating. Why do guys always decide randomly out of nowhere that it's cool to come back to stir shit up? Guaranteed if I EVER did that to any of exes, I'd totally be written off as crazy, but for them it's just no big deal -- how completely selfish of them!
Let me backtrack. Last year I had dated...well let me put it in quotes, 'dated'...this guy who I thought 100% was the most intriguing, gorgeous, interesting, intense person ever. He had a really interesting life story, played college bball and was unbelievably sexy (heyyy, tattoos). I can't even create a name for him because he was so many random things, it's hard to classify! Well, little did I know that he had also dated a friend of a friend a few years back, and had been a total jerk to her - not just then, but a few years later after they'd been broken up for years. So, of course my lovely friend warned me about his douchery, but also let me figure out for myself what I needed to. Well, like a zebra doesn't change his stripes, a dbag doesn't lose his douchery even after a few years. Anyway, after a roller coaster of emotions and total 'non-dating' for almost 6 months -- seriously, so much drama I couldn't even handle it -- it eventually just fizzled. Last October, I ran into him randomly at Yonge-Dundas Square legit crossing the street, we gave each other the head nod and kept walking -- and that was the last time I'd seen him. He deleted me from Facebook as well.
So out of nowhere he messages me this weekend to say 'hey, we lost touch. say hello sometime.'
Intrigued I message back and we do the little banter dance back and forth. Then I finally get the real reason he was messaging...oh yeah, how obvious is this. He wanted to know if I'd be down for a 'cuddle and a catch up'...very polite way of saying a hook-up, but the same sentiment nonetheless.
NO I DO NOT WANT TO CUDDLE AND CATCH UP.
GO CUDDLE YOURSELF.