#saywhat?

So as y'all can tell by the title of my blog alone, I'm a girl from Georgia who moved up to Toronto more than 5 years ago.  Having grown up in Atlanta, I obviously have lots of roots in the South - friends and family and history back home.  As part and parcel of that history, I have a number of exes who live in and around the Southeast region.  Makes sense, right?  Well, what doesn't make sense is that these exes 1) like to get back in touch with me constantly and 2) continue to ask me to see them again (whether it's them visiting me or me visiting them).  Is this a normal occurrence out there in the world? Or is this literally just a me thing?  Because I gotta say, i just don't get it...why waste time contacting someone who you'd legitimately need a valid passport to visit? Seriously dudes...#saywhat?